How often do you think about the pain caused by the person(s) that offended you?
Do you plan to forgive the person(s) that offended you?
Do you ask God for help on the offense/pain?
Do you fantasize about revenge or wish harm for the person(s) who offended you?
Have you taken the matter to confession or spiritual direction / therapy?
Do you think the offense caused is unforgivable (by you)?
Would you like God to forgive the person (s) who offended you?
Do you pray for the person(s) who offended you?
